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Back to the USA from Qatar

I am back in the States and there is a drama to all this. I was working for a sports retailer in Qatar and got my employment terminated by them in December. This wasn’t a shock but expected, the company had a history of doing such and being a professional it is part of a job. But things got interesting when they proceeded to put an exit block on me so I couldn’t leave Qatar. I complained but went along with this as I was on my 2 month notice period. Once the month ended, I didn’t get my salary. I asked for about my salary multiple times from the HR but couldn’t get a straight answer. Infact they wouldn’t pick up my calls or respond to emails. after a day or two I received an email that stated that my termination was cancelled and I was re-terminated by the company based on the claim that I caused finance loss to the company. I requested the proof of that and they refused to provide it.

During all this drama, I am packing my bags and hoping to leave but couldn’t. I couldnt find a job locally and the job market was not in good shape already.

The HR called me on day and told me to come and sign a paper, give up my rights and they will let me exit and put me on a plane to USA. I was desperate and decided to do it. The HR person even told me to come at 7am so it is done before the office even opens.

That night, i talked to a close friend of mine and he being a local told me not to give up on my rights. He convinced me that i should go to Human Rights Commission Office in Doha and explain the situation to them. It turns out that there is a human rights commission in Qatar which deals with the abuse of the employers, which mean sit is a frequent issue. Once i went there, i was directed to an exit permit section. I explained the situation to the front man (expat) who took my information to a Captain (Qatari) in the back. they contacted the company and was told to wait an hour.

After an hour, i was told that the company will settle with me within three days and provide the exit permit. I left and headed home. I called the Company and this time the HR Head picked up the phone. he informed that he will let me know what the company is going to do. the next day and over the weekend (Friday and Saturday) there was no information or feedback from the company. On Sunday (Sunday is a weekdays in Qatar) I wrote emails to the company HR and Legal department and there was no feedback. Around 4pm on Sunday I got an email informing me that there was nothing owed to me and they will issue the exit permit. I received the exit permit and subsequently left Qatar.

The day I left Qatar, I filed a case with Labor Ministry and hired a lawyer to represent me. So now we are awaiting a court date to get my rights.

Many things I noticed, there is clear abuse in Qatar for employers, doesn’t matter what nationality but private companies would try their best to abuse employees, some might fight back and some will give up and leave. this empowers the employers.

The company is tied to the World Cup and maybe they think their importance to the FIFA world cup will ensure that they don’t have an accountability. The final accountability is with Allah and i will wait for it.

some words about the life in Qatar. it is a dream land. a Façade where everything is like Disneyworld. It has a lot of goods but living there doesn’t prepare you for the real world which is very different. Specially coming from the west, there is a lot of tradeoff. Giving up on your rights, your freedoms, your values and your professionalism. The laws are in favor or Qataris, the rules are in favor of locals to ensure they win. There is a ceiling called Qatari that you cannot break through. you cannot argue or you cannot question. Qataris get alot of benefits while people who are actually building up their country, cleaning their beaches and making this world cup happen are at the bottom. clear racism, in offices, in government centers, in health clinics and many other places. I thought my American passport would help, it did to certain extent but I was always the south Asian with an American passport and not an American. Admissions to universities are with dual standards. The country is a bling bling land but PR the machine will make you believe that they are the most just and peaceful.

Two Nation Theory

Two Nation Theory and the never ending learning of the concept in our Pakistan Studies class was always torturous but now looking back at it. It seems that Quaid-e-Azam was right. Muhammad Ali Jinnah was correct and had good sight of the issues that Muslims will face in a united India. Now India under the BJP government is proving it daily. Attacks on Muslims have increased many folds. They are being stopped from practicing their religion in public. Even public display of prayer is considered unacceptable. sometimes it is hijab

Everyday there is news about the oppression of the majority on the minority and it is not just Muslims, but Christians and Buddhists.

The international media is also starting to take notice on the issues Muslims face in India. Indian government can ignore or deny all this but the reality is much different. What happened in Gujrat and the ramifications of the genocide that occurred and the resulting ban of Modi into USA was due to the same policies that were enacted in Gujrat India under Modi and now being implemented in Inida at a national Level.

The Final Solution

Whatever the future holds for muslims in inidia, it is not going to be good for them. Kashmir and now the fire spreads to rest of the country. Modi who is considered a war criminal in on his way to be the next Hitler at best, Facist at minimum. Friend of the apartheid.

This is a good link to understand what Two Nation Theory is all about.

Some other Links

https://www.britannica.com/place/Pakistan/The-Muslim-League-and-Mohammed-Ali-Jinnah

https://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-40961603

Rush of Memories

Recently, my mind has been on a roller coaster ride of memories. The 90s are hitting me hard and not sure why is that the case. from my time of street cricket in Islamabad to the first snow in the USA to the welcoming of the new Millenium on the streets of DC.

there is sometimes too much flowing through the brain and the ability to capture and write is not possible.

Life has been a journey.

I am a nomad than a resident. Maybe a world citizen. looking past at my life, USA was the longest stint of time spent anywhere which was 14 years. otherwise, life has been divided into Pakistan, Bahrain, Pakistan, USA and Qatar. Every timeframe offering a different perspective, different challenges.

there is one memory that has been sticking out for me for a while. i think it is my earliest memory.

it is from a place called satellite town. we lived here until I was few years old and moved to Islamabad. what I remember is that it is a holiday or the weekend. We are somewhere in spring. I remember there is a veranda in the back of the house. I can feel the cold of winter going away and the heat of the sun making it very comfortable. Everyone in the house is asleep. I am awake, I am sitting on the veranda playing with a red rail engine toy.

There is nothing more to the memory than this but when I think about it. I can still feel the warmth of the sun, the feeling of light cold in the air, the coldness of the veranda ground, and the beautiful spring morning.

“Nothing is ever really lost to us as long as we remember it.”
― L.M. Montgomery, The Story Girl

Looking back

Moving to USA in 98 had put me in a unique position to jump on the bandwagon of the Internet Era. I was young and full of plans and idea. There were opportunities. Heck I saw the movement from dialup to broadband, I lived through the Napster era, I had an account on AOL, I was lucky to get an invite to Gmail early. I had my first mobile phone and did not have to pay for caller ID. the current generation cannot even imagine what life changing events we went through. moreover, I was a Muslim who moved to USA and lived through the after math of the 911. dealt with a lot of interesting things and people.

22 years later since I moved to America as 19 years old, I look back and think what happened, did I miss the opportunities.

Not Sure, maybe I will never know.

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